STORY OF THE DAY: NO POINTING FINGERS

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?” The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

One Response

  1. kata-kata tok guru akak juga..satu jari tunjuk kat orang 4 jari tunjuk balik kepada kita..tapi kadang2 tertunjuk juga kat orang..:( tapi tak bermaksud bila ada satu kesalahan yang wajib ditegur kita berdiam diri…betul tak?

    akak pun masih belajar..dalam rumah tangga setiap hari adalah hari untuk berkenalan dan terus berkenalan antara satu sama lain.

    betul, salah menyalahkan hanya akan memburukkan keadaan. lagipun apa nilai marah kita dengan nilai sebuah kasih sayang dan perasaan yang tercalar…

    share entry lagi ye :
    http://rulza.blogspot.com/2011/04/nilai-cinta-dan-sebuah-kereta-suami.html

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